What is the prime motivator for your relationship?
It is important, of course, to answer this question honestly, the way you can imagine your nature should not be in the world but your relationship is really in reality. It is also important to keep in mind that how can your initially be attracted to engage you with your loved ones? Our relationships and our reasons for being among them are naturally prepared over time. Fortunately for the best.
However, why do some relationships develop while dissolving others?
When we do not anticipate predictive longevity, at the time of an intellectual and ancient philosophy, which reflects the issue of regular well-being, it can provide some useful indications.
In Nicomassa, about what about classic Tim’s good life, Arthrito says we love three different types that are useful, love, pleasant and good. And he tells us that there is a friendly friendship that belongs to each of them.
The first type of friendship is between two people who are useful. You can see your relationship as an opportunity for any kind of income, perhaps financial benefit. It can be invested forty and four years at the beginning to earn money. The second part of friendship is between two people who feel pleasant together. For example, more than two cities enjoy evening evening in more than twenty years. Arrestu says that when there is no fault with these two types of friendship, they are based on themselves and depend on them that every person receives friendship or is beneficial. And when money or fun is over, which is often, is friendship.
They say that the third level of friendship based on the highest is the highest and ideal. These friends are more durable because they are based on sympathy in each other. Although they are not encouraged by the pursuit of profit or happiness, they are often beneficial and entertained, and well end. We refer to the friendship that are “Aristlital Friendship”.
We believe that the aggressive consultations of the friends should not be limited to the plateau association. His philosophy can also be applied to romantic relations. Like friendship, weddings and other romantic relationships can be in any of three levels. Some relationships are based on utility or financial security that the report provides with all the necessary services.
Historically, this kind of relationship occurred during the wedding of an institution which was generally regarded as gifts, qualities, and such. For some other reasons, the content needs of the material can be obtained for the relationship. Although nothing is wrong with this type of relationship, we can see how partners can walk on informed water. With a deep fall in the Do, your finance can quickly pamphlet and you will be drowned. Relations with happiness focus on happiness based on us. Perhaps strong physical attention, sexual enjoyment or pure enjoyment do not get from participating in other encouraging activities (sex not only!). And of course, at the beginning of romance, the nature of nature can be at its highest point. However, as long as the fun gets reduced, these relationships often fail.
We do not get anything wrong with the benefit or happiness as part of healthy relationships. In fact, one or both of these things may initially attract our partner. However, if it is based on the relationship, we may be in trouble because the benefits and happiness are our unnecessary and self-oriented movements that belong to our needs.
- The third and most of the relationship is based on virtue.
- We do not focus on what we get from them, but what we have put in them.
These “aristocratic” relationships are based on the other and are based on the promotion, and this is something we will discuss in our next book on a sustainable durable love building. We believe that such relationships are more durable because it is finally based on this role. And, unlike good character, utility, or happiness, we belong to the relationship, it is more likely to be over time.